6 reasons why you should stop being a good girl

1. You are always near friends and loved ones when they need you, but they are never there when you need them.
You listen to their problems for hours and try to help, but when it comes to you? Do they listen to you? Can you open up to them without feeling a burden or that they will condemn you? If emotional support is not two-way, it's time you save yourself from it.

2. It hurts you because you ignore the warning signs, trying to believe in the best in people.

Optimism and empathy are wonderful qualities, but don't let them be the reason why others use you. Trust your intuition.

3. You are uncomfortable asking about what you need.

Do not let the fear of what others think will prevent you from asking for what you deserve. You're not crazy and not intrusive, if you want to spend more time with the one you love. You are not demanding if you ask your friends to do something for you, when you without hesitation do everything for them. Stop apologizing for not being able to do everything yourself all the time, and that you are asking for what you want.

four.You say yes and maybe when you really want to say no.

No, I do not want to go for a walk with you. No, I don't have time to help you with this. No, I have no strength to go to this event today. Stop agreeing on what you don’t want to do, simply because you don’t know how to say no without hurt someone’s feelings. Think of yourself.

5. You take people off their hands on what they say or do inappropriate things.

We all occasionally say or do stupid things, not knowing how it can affect the people around us. Mistakes happen. But when you start to see that it happens all the time, and if you hush up it, this is not a mature approach - you just allow people to wipe their feet on you. Stop that.

6. You always compromise.

If you sacrifice what you want because of other people, or because you think you need it, stop it. When it comes to looking for love or your dream job, you should never settle for less until you find one or the other without which you cannot live.

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