7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

Have you ever had such that you just met a person and you seemed to have something clicked inside and you know that this is your person, that he should be in your life? Someone calls it love at first sight, but really, why do some people resonate so strongly with us, while others, maybe even more attractive, do not cause any emotions?

There are several reasons for this according to psychology:

1. These people evoke pleasant memories from the past.Deep in our minds we keep images of people who played an important role in our life when we were still small. These people made us who we are now. Images of parents, neighbors, relatives - this is a combination of reality, as we remember them with children's imagination.

We associate these pictures with the love we received and understood as children. Therefore, if a person resembles someone from our past, maybe not even explicitly, but our subconscious recognizes him, he gives us warm feelings.

2. They remind us of parents.We often choose those who help us to heal children's injuries as companions of life. That is, not necessarily a man may resemble a loving father, but rather the opposite - a tyrant father, and in his example a woman may try to compensate for the love and attention of the father that was not received in childhood.
3. They complement us. When we meet our man, we are very comfortable with him. It seems that before something was missing, and it turned out that it was not enough. No wonder they say that opposites attract. Let not radically different, but usually one of the spouses is more patient, someone more decisive. We complement each other as details of one design.

4. They fit perfectly into our lives.We find people who can play their part in our lives, who intuitively know the plot and script. Yes, this is a play that you write together.

5. Their relationship with us is constantly changing.In the beginning, everyone tries to appear ideal to each other, but over time people get tired of pretending and all the flaws are revealed. Then someone decides to leave, someone is disappointed, and someone learns to accept and even appreciate the shortcomings of another.

6They are not trying to change us. It’s just that a suitable person does not focus on the bad, but focuses on our good qualities, on what initially attracted him. Everyone wants a relationship in which everyone supports each other. If you force someone to change, he will begin to back up.

7. They have what we need for a successful relationship.And the secret is in honest communication, positive emotions, no accusations, manipulations, a common desire to reach a compromise and pronounce pain, resentment and misunderstanding.


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  • 7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner

    7 psychological moments as we choose our life partner