There are so many great things about oral sex that you really should do more. Here they are:
Interesting fact: most women can not reach orgasm exclusively from penetration. The data varies, but many researchers claim that only 25% reach the peak of pleasure from penetrating sex. The rest need other kinds of caresses, and oral sex is the ideal way to get the clitoral stimulation necessary for orgasm.
Many people feel embarrassed during oral sex, but when you overcome this feeling, you will discover many advantages for each other. The intimacy and vulnerability of oral sex can take your lovemaking to a new level. You can ask your partner what you like, be honest about whether you like affection or not, and not hide your own body and pleasure. At this point, you fully open your partner, and it is amazingly sexy.
Detachment during sex is a huge problem, especially if you are in a long-term relationship. When you have oral sex, you are fully focused on this task. This is a good way to focus on what is happening.
Oral sex can be different. It can be strange or “vanilla”, romantic or wild, fast or languid. You can use sex toys, fingers and many other sex techniques. If you and your partner are open to each other, you will find many ways to diversify your intimate life.
Sometimes it's nice to give sexual attention to yourself, and sometimes to a partner. Good lovers are focused on pleasing their partner, as well as on themselves, making sex playful, preserving sexual fun.
If you are in a relationship for a long time, it is likely that sex is not the same as before. Gradually, you begin to focus on the end result, not the process itself. Always remember that relationships will not always be hot,but you can keep a spark in them. Oral sex is a great way to not rush and return the passion to relationships.
Is this not enough? Not everyone likes oral sex, and that's fine. But if you play with its variations, you will surely find a way that you enjoy. Do not be afraid to include sex toys and fingers in oral sex.